freckles
"When we remember we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained." - Mark Twain

I'm a girl in her twenties that lives in Seattle and enjoys weird things.
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#personal rant
Posted 11 months ago
Manipulative Friendships

I’m usually not someone who posts about this sort of tuff on tumblr. If I’m having a rough time I’ll leave it alone and ignore the internet for awhile. So please understand that I am posting this because I am completely at odds with what to do here. 

A friend of mine, L, has a female friend, “D”. D is his best friend’s girlfriend. L has feelings for D. I just found out that D has been blackmailing L and putting L under severe pressure to not talk to me for almost a year now. D has repeatedly twisted things about me every time L and I got into a fight (which isn’t often) to get L not to talk to me. 

Well, D and I got into a fight. I found out that the reason L has been distant lately is actually partially because of D throwing a fit when she knew he was talking to me, and partially because L had been stressed. I called D out on her really manipulative and sneaky behavior and she got furious with me. L took her side. I got fed up of being stuck in between them so I told D’s boyfriend everything that had been going on, including L having feelings for D and D being very possessive over L. I said something might be going on between them. Now it’s a huge fight or something. I don’t want to get in the middle of something catty like that.

Now L has stopped talking to me because I broke his trust etc and he thinks I told the truth just to be manipulative. The truth is I’m tired of being dragged into their shitty love triangle bullshit. I have my own relationship to worry about! I don’t want to get caught up in that kind of stuff. 

So I have lost a close friend of mine of two years, because a female friend of his who is not even dating him got jealous of me, possessive of him, and wanted him to stop talking to me. FUCKING GREAT. 

I hate people. Women, why do you have to be so catty and manipulative? Why? It’s unattractive, for fuck’s sake.